The Timing We Don’t See

I was reading in the book of Mark (Chapter 5) about the story of the bleeding woman, and when I reached the end of her story, I kept going a sentence or two more—and suddenly I was confused. So, I went back and read the whole passage again. That’s when I realized something I had never noticed before: the story of the bleeding woman is tucked inside another story.

Jesus was actually on His way to see a very sick little girl. In God’s perfect storytelling, these two lives meet in one moment. The woman had been bleeding for twelve years. She touched the edge of Jesus’s garment, and instantly she was healed. Scripture says Jesus felt the power leave Him, and the woman knew in her body she had been restored.

But when you keep reading, something else emerges. By the time Jesus arrives at the little girl’s house, she has died. And yet He brings her back to life. And then you read her age: twelve years old.

Suddenly it all connects.

The very year this little girl was born was the same year the woman’s suffering began. What looked like two separate stories were actually one woven thread. From the moment the woman’s sickness started, God had already set in motion the plan for her healing. And while Jesus was on His way to restore a young girl’s life, He was also stepping into a miracle twelve years in the making for another daughter.

Both stories were set into motion at the exact same time. Both unfold under God’s perfect sovereignty. And both remind us that God is never late, never early—He is always right on time.

We see this same truth echo across Scripture. When the birth of Jesus is described, it says, “When the time has fully come.” Not by coincidence. Not by chance. Because everything had been set into motion for that exact day, just as everything had been set into motion for the woman to meet Jesus on the road.

Jesus even speaks this way about His own death, saying, “The hour has come.” A divine timeline. A holy sequence. A course of events prepared long before we ever see them unfolding.

And it leaves us with this: what feels delayed to us is often right on time to God. What feels separate is often deeply intertwined. And what feels like a long wait may, in heaven’s eyes, be a story already in motion—twelve years, or a lifetime, in the making.

And that same truth—God setting things into motion long before we ever recognize it—showed up again in my own life in a way I never could’ve scripted.

When I was pregnant with my daughter, we moved into my parents’ house. They had done all these renovations, but had never actually lived in it yet. I would go on long walks through the neighborhood, praying all throughout my pregnancy that I would have the same birth experience I had with my son. I had watched friends go through really hard deliveries, and my heart just kept coming back to one simple request: Lord, could You give me the same doctor and the same nurse again? It felt like the best way for everything to unfold peacefully.

I was scheduled to be induced, and a day or two before my appointment I went in to see my doctor because I was feeling a few things. She looked at my chart and said, “I see you have an induction date. Well, I’m working tomorrow—do you want to come in then?”

I remember blinking at her and thinking, So…I can actually have the same doctor deliver my little girl?
Yes. I could.

So I went in the next evening and the process began. Early the next day there was a shift change. My night nurse left, and in walked a nurse with beautiful deep skin and long, dark hair. I looked at her and immediately said, “You’re the nurse I’ve been praying for.” She smiled softly and said, “I thought your name looked familiar.”

And would you believe it—that day was my birthday, and I got exactly what I had asked God for.

Two days later, my husband and I still hadn’t decided on a name. The nurses were gently warning us we couldn’t leave without one. My husband looked at me and said, “Why don’t we name her after the nurse you prayed for? Samantha.”

The name echoed in my mind. Yes.
That was it.
Our daughter would be Samantha Grace. ❤️🎀

Years passed. My parents—military people who have moved more times than I can count—were cleaning out a few old boxes before yet another move. My mom called and said she had found my old Ramona Quimby diary from when I was eight years old. She asked if I wanted it. I told her yes, mostly because I wanted to see my handwriting from that age.

She brought it over, I set it on the counter, and honestly…I didn’t look at it right away. But one day I picked it up, flipped through the pages—unfinished of course—and landed on the very last line I had written towards the beginning of the diary.

The diary had asked a question:
“What will you name your children when you grow up?”

And in my eight-year-old handwriting, on the last entry, I had written this name:

Samantha.

A name I didn’t remember choosing. A name I didn’t recall loving. And yet—twenty years later—God provided the doctor, the nurse, the moment, and the husband who would look at me and suggest the exact name my little-girl heart had written down long before I ever became a mother.

A twenty-year blessing in the making.
A story set into motion before I even knew a story had begun.
A reminder that the God who orchestrated the healing of a woman and the raising of a little girl—twelve years apart—is the same God who quietly weaves the details of our lives with perfect timing.

Never late.
Never early.

Always, right on time.

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